View from the Vicarage

At the end of last month our beloved vicar Jill Carman died. She was suffering from terminal cancer but still her passing was a shock to us all. On the day before she died she jointly lead a, ‘Service for times of Need’ in St Catherine’s chapel were she prayed for all those there and offered blessing by the laying on of hands along with the Revds Ali and Michael. The service was peaceful and the people present were moved by the quiet peace and gentle encouragement that it offered.

The service was a recognition that life is not easy and that there are many griefs and trials to be born in our mortal lives and in the lives of those we love. We are not promised material blessing or physical healing from God but we are offered a firm psychological hand to hold and a path to wholeness and well-being that may include the restoration of our lives. The following words are from the forward to the service that was developed in the Iona community in Scotland.

We all stand in need of restoration and in this ministry we recognise that this also has a social dimension. The healing of divided communities, the healing of the earth itself, has a place alongside the mending of broken bodies, hurt minds and wounded hearts and of the hurts and divisions within ourselves. So too our prayers are complementary with the work of medicine and other forms of healing, which are also channels of God’s loving and transforming action. In this service anyone may name particular people and places and situations for which prayers are specifically asked. We do this because each person and situation is known to God, not as a problem to be solved but as a focus for God’s acceptance and love. We are not seeking to change God but to change the world; and we trust God that our prayers will be heeded, although we do not know when or how that will happen’.

The prayers that we said offered this plea,

God of compassion and love

we offer you all our suffering and pain.

Give us strength to bear our weakness,

healing even when there is no cure,

peace in the midst of turmoil,

and love to fill the spaces of our lives

For Jill there was, ‘Healing when there is no cure’ and we are thankful for this even as we acknowledge that it is hard for those of us left behind; for her beloved family who she adored and her village and church community whom she served with grace and fortitude even in her pain.

As we live in this fleshy, mortal world where life is a precious gift for a season so we dare to say that death can be a healing and that there is love and grace in mourning.

God Bless, Rev Ali

PS If you ever want a place to talk about death and dying then please do contact the church, we are here to help in many practical ways and to offer a listening ear for as long as you need it.

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